Someone messaged me today "So since its over with why don't u just drop it?... I know it's hard but I would just be glad he's gone"
If your child wants to touch the hot stove you're going to slap his hand away tell him that is not ok. But what if no one ever tells him it's not ok to touch the hot stove? What if we lived in a world where no one knew you couldn't touch hot stoves or if they did, didn't want to tell anyone else? It sounds silly but still, That child is going to just keep trying to touch that hot stove over and over, because no one has told him he shouldn't, until eventually he burns himself.
or kills a girl.
It sounds silly because everyone knows not to touch a hot stove. right?
but than again "everyone knows" you shouldn't abuse/assault.